The Heart
Behind TDLI

Why I Created TDLI

Shaped by Experiences

I was shaped by experiences and people who left their marks—some painful, some profound.

Choosing to Rise

 I could have stayed small under the weight of those stories, instead I chose to rise.

Birth of TDLI

That choice became TDLI: an institute that embodies the Divintastical Living movement and delivers programs like GO Divintastical Excellence—helping transform heaviness into fuel and empowering people to step boldly into their own excellence.

My Story of Becoming

The Weight of Stories

For years, I carried expectations, setbacks, and wounds in the form of replayed stories that kept me playing small. Those betrayals, lost dreams, and crumbled relationships became who I believed I was—my lived identity. It took courage to see that I was never the stories themselves; I was the soul beneath them, waiting to be seen.

The Turning Point

Then came my turning point. On a traffic-congested 401 highway, my soul screamed ENOUGH. In that moment, I said YES to myself without a plan, without a roadmap, just one messy step after another. And in choosing myself, I began to rebuild, reclaim, and rise.

The Outcome

That journey has shaped everything I’ve created — TDLI, the Divintastical Living movement, and the GO Divintastical Excellence Program. Because excellence isn’t reserved for a select few, it’s available to anyone willing to rise and say YES, again and again, to themselves. 

Every transformation begins with a choice. Here’s mine.

My Mission

A Personal Note

Hi, I’m Jenn

And here’s something I know for certain — you came into this world perfect, magnificent, and breathtaking.

My promise to you

This is
your journey

and you don’t have to

walk it alone.

My Moments Unfolded

A glimpse into the moments that shaped me, and became

the heart behind TDLI.

A Pivotal Influence Begins

My grandmother passed away at the age of 104. She was a pivotal force in my life—shaping me through lessons that were hard, yet divinely placed. Alongside her, my dad and many other teachers left their marks. Each had a role in crafting who I became as an adult.

The Choice

That shaping can leave you broken and bitter, or it can grow into something reverent and beautiful. We get to decide. I committed to move beyond it all and Go Divintastical.

The Weight We Carry

I know what it feels like to shoulder expectations, setbacks, and stories that try to shrink who you are. TDLI was created from that knowing—from the realization that no one should have to navigate heaviness alone, and that we all deserve tools, guidance, and reminders of our own excellence.

The Movement

Divintastical Living is more than a philosophy — it’s a movement of joy, freedom, and sovereignty that cultivates the conscious leaders of tomorrow — because when people rise, organisations thrive.

The Lesson

Yes, life tested me with betrayal, disappointment, and loss and it would have been easy to grow guarded or hard. Instead, I discovered this: pain doesn’t define me, my response does. And excellence is available to all who claim it

Choosing to Lead With Love

In that space, I made a conscious choice, to lead with love, never from weakness, always as strength and clarity. It gave me sovereignty over my emotions, grounded me in mindful neutrality, and became my way of being Divintastical.

From the Knocks to 'ENOUGH'

A raw and honest look at the struggles, breakdowns, and breakthroughs

that shaped the woman I’ve become.

The Knocks in Life

We’ve all had knocks in life — the kind that leave us carrying victim stories and the SHITES they plant inside us.

My Struggles

I’ve had my share:

  • A promiscuous and abusive dad.
  • A grandmother who saw no beauty in me.
  • A business snatched away by greed.
  • People letting me down, stringing me along.
  • Relationships fading, dreams crumbling.

Hitting the Bottom

For years, I lived those stories. They weighed me down. They made me small.

Here’s what I learnt: once you hit the bottom — penniless, fighting for a roof, debt-ridden, broken — there’s only one direction left. Up.

The Awakening

One day, I dared to want more, my soul screamed ENOUGH. On a crowded 401 highway, I felt my epiphany: my time was now. To silence the relentless voice within, I declared my YES and chose to rise. In that radiant moment, I committed to myself and everything changed.

The Messy Rise

I had no plan, no roadmap. Just one action after another crooked, messy, non-linear steps that still carried me forward. Along the way, I rebuilt me. Fragmented. Mentally fragile. A hot red mess.
And still… I reclaimed who I knew I could be and began to beam my worth outward.

A Mission Rooted in
Awakening

Because every life deserves to move from pain to purpose,

from stories to soul.

Will you embrace yours?